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I wake up one day in my bed wondering randomly, “Okay what is today going to have in store for me?” Instinctively, I must have just known something was wrong. It was a Thursday.    I was in my backyard cleaning up pine, branches, trimmed up the lilacs and raked the yard. Like any other day I do any yard work, I took my allergy medicine.    I was okay with the exception of the regular hot shower needed afterword. Friday progressed as any other day but I started to feel achy, more than normal.    Maybe it was the cold from Autumn setting in.     Who knows?!    Get some rest and maybe Saturday will be better. When my days turned excruciating began when standing on my feet.    When a person lives daily with extreme amounts of pain, pain really doesn’t have very many levels of severity anymore.    But oh my knees. They just hurt but I just figured maybe because of the cold. Picture for effect “erythem...

Military brats or just brats?

Do you know where your children are?   Better yet, do you know WHO your children are?  Military Brats are a unique breed of “b-r-a-t” if an upper hand parent doesn’t keep an eye on their kids.  Morale vs. parenting, the uniform versus family, and the general idea of “can a service member exercise control over their family”.  If a Colonel or Commander can’t keep their kid under wraps, you think law enforcement is going to do anything?  Remember that little thing I mentioned before about a “MoU”?  Military Brats often times are raised to believe today that they are above the law.  Behavior nightmare house of horrors here we come.  Let’s bring the military issues back to core values, shall we?

I did some digging into who exactly is running one little Air Base in a small town.  Names are public therefore their lives have NO privacy.  You’d be surprised how google can be so helpful in finding out what kind of parent, if at all, some of these people are.  Not everyone seems or looks so bad on the face value.  Uh oh!  Then we go one step deeper.  Who are their kids and what are they about?  I’m a parent of a teenager myself so one should definitely wonder if their demonstration of permissive parenting may be backfiring when they are not at home.  Do they know what their kids were doing over the summer?  Do they know what their children partake in for entertainment? One might begin to wonder.

I have friends from a small town near this air base but living away from it, thankfully, I don’t get swept up into small town politics and excuses so it doesn’t affect me in the same way some people might think.  You want corruption- let’s start at the core of the future- the children.

In doing some searching after having talked to several teenagers in the city of Lompoc, California, I found disturbing information that was confirmed.  One young girl even stated AND showed me what her so called little friends were up to and how disgusted by their violent behavior she really was- sad she didn't have the courage to tell them herself.  The way these young people share away on social media platforms is amazing to unravel and figure out.  Hell, it didn’t take much but one public profile exposing the rest of their little friends.  The shocker will be in their friends list- a long list of "military brats".


So here you go- Instagram- the social platform of teenagers-who knew?!



A teenager's "Back-up account" and the only post as you can see is a not so nice one on the eyes.  

PARENTAL VIEWER DISCRETION IS ADVISED!!!!
Under the age of 18 should not watch even though the perpetrators are minors- 13 & Under





So who are these young girls who uploaded the video from mobile to their profile?  Well, they ARE associated with the base in some way I can tell you that.  And they have previously have engaged in doing things on base that don't exactly conform to "morale and public safety" on government property.



These actions are criminal- this is not only a pair of delinquent teenagers, but the bystanders who chose to stand away, recording, filming, jeering, and promoting this violence, someone should be in jail.  The bystander effect CAN be used against you in a court of law!  This is not a bully.  This is a criminal.  and the 67 followers who enjoy watching it- SHAME ON THEM. 

While I reported the post to Instagram, they have thus far refused to take it offline.  So, exposure to this crime is my intent here now.  Proving a simple point that people today lack the ability to reflect within their own homes and exercise what it means to be a parent.  While the parent is off serving their country so to speak, who watches their kid...oh wait, BOTH parents are responsible because they should be in total control of their family, isn't that right?

Let's make this simple: forget the military association.  This crime appears to be in city property NOT government property.  So, why has this not been prosecuted under zero tolerance bully laws and under the zero tolerance of teenagers and violence.

Floyd, Johnson, Shimada, Moss, Zarybnisky, Diamond, Gendron, Navarro, Aguilar, Smith, Villapania, Martinez, Carr, Davidson, Palacio, Hill, Hamelin, Sartorius, Velsher, Sanchez, Frazier, Lopez, Harden, Durham, Cline, and many more are among the names associated with this profile and the close-knit network of friends”.

Irony is several of the names were identified directly as children of upper commands officers, management, and those in power or in a unique position, even as a DOD civilian on base.  One is the daughter of a commander, another is the Former Command Colonel’s Son.  Word has it around town through interviewing some young folk that good ole sonny boy has a criminally engaging reputation of sexual harassment in the school environment and has no censoring as to where he would like to place his appendages.  So exactly how well do you know your child, or do you know this and are condoning it through “permissive parenting”?  As a former facility manager myself, I know I certainly didn’t permit these types of actions in the school environment from any child of any age.  My oh my, I certainly hope for the good ole Colonel, whether this is true or not, he may wish to get a grip on this before the YES MEANS YES policy comes knocking at his doorstep.  By that time, it may or may not be too late.  Big no-no. 

Whether this is true is not the point.  Get a grip over your kids and hold them accountable for their actions, even if criminal.  If permitted as children, you then become the parent that raised a criminal in the future.

They say pictures say a thousand words.  What do videos say?

We expect as civilians for our military to exhibit moral “fiber”. more-so than in a loaf of bread.  Do we expect the children to uphold the same values? Why or why not? 

In the bases I grew up around, zero tolerance was the uniform practice.  The kids actually would be escorted to their parents and the matters would be handled accordingly and not just with a simple slap of the wrist.  Oh no never a slap on the wrist.  Parents cared about parenting and discipline, and no I’m not talking about corporal punishment.  MoUs it appears are now discretely saying- handle this- without guarantee of disciplinary action ever happening to the perpetrators or their bystanders.  People need to open their eyes.  Kids are simply not being taught the same principles once taught.  Social Media is obviously not helping the situation.


Makes a person really think.  You are allowed to parent your child and you are allowed to ground them and punish them.  If you don’t sit down and talk to your kids, then the truth is-

Your imagination is the limit when it comes to your kids.  If you are in the military or even work around the military, start paying attention. Start being a parent if you aren’t doing enough already.


I close this out by simply saying Where Are Your Children and Do You Know Who Their “Friends” are?

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