Taking Custody

A California woman has been fighting to get a divorce from her military husband and the nearby base in the last 30 months to no avail, and has finally months ago succeeded in obtaining a copy of the military-issued no-contact order, but not without a long, drawn-out fight alleging many flaws in the lack of support and follow-through for domestic abuse victims seeking assistance from base resources, where such resources exist as required by law.  What started as a divorce in civil court has turned into a divorce with the military, instead of a divorce only with her soon to be ex-husband. For purposes of this series of military violence exposés, this woman’s name will until further notice remain anonymous as an alias as will all other names involved who have perpetrated wrongdoing.  This woman has experience retaliation in both her family court case as well as within her own community in addition to acts being committed against her or toward her by personnel on base.  ...

Amid growing tensions in the world between the US and foreign countries like North Korea, we in the USA have been blinded to think that all is well in love and war back at home on U.S. Soil.  Instead of countries who wish to engage in psychological competitions of who has the greater nuclear weapons, Americans across this country are facing a not so new conflict here at home where our own military has turned its back on the most heinous of victims, men, women and children who fall victim to domestic violence as committed by their sponsor service-member. While Domestic Violence is recognized by the Military as a complicated and growing issue, there are only two worlds of class systems when the abuser is a member of the military: the Military Justice System and the Family Advocacy System (FAP/FAO).  Neither system is in communication with civilian courts when it comes to holding an abuser accountable once a victim is ready to leave the abusive family relations...

           Welcome to my new Blog TAKING CUSTODY where I discuss every angle of life, investigate corruption at the core values of this country, willfully talk about controversial opinion issues, politics, government, community concerns, life how-to’s and DIY-er projects, all the way to the basic concepts of how to deal with the average problem for the average person or family.  I invite you to continue this journey with me.  Family, Friends, Followers, Readers, Activists, Advocates, as well as every adult and child who wishes to share and learn, or just partake in discussion are welcome here.  I’m a daughter, sister, mother, friend,romantic partner, and an advocate and activist for children and families for life.  I don’t consider myself an expert just a person like anyone else.  I live life and experience it all at the same time.  We all learn by trial and error.  Let’s learn, expose, and educate the world to...